The rule comes first
Connivence is a circle of couples. Single people do not enter it by sign-up: they are invited by us, one by one, or they do not enter at all.
THE ONLY EXCEPTION TO OUR RULE
The Courtised ones.
Chosen one by one.
Connivence does not admit single people: the Circle is made for couples, and every couple enters it free of charge and immediately. We keep one exception, tiny and deliberately rare: a few women and men chosen personally by Oli&Mu, for their elegance, their good manners and their respect for everyone's freedom.
FACES, ONE SPIRIT
A few presences that speak for us.
A chosen gallery of Courtised ones. Their full profiles remain reserved for members of the Boudoir.
Illustrative portraits - access to full profiles is reserved for members of the Boudoir.
WHY AN EXCEPTION?
A couple is not always
enough for itself.
Our rule is simple: here, you come in as a couple. That is what sets us apart from platforms where you find everything, and what protects the quality of the encounters. But some couples sometimes look for a third presence, carefully chosen. That is the only role of our Courtised ones.
They are not profiles like the others. They are single people we have met, whose discretion and way of living encounters convinced us. Their number is deliberately very small: we would rather welcome too few than choose badly.
Elegance above all
Good manners, courtesy and a sense of hospitality are not options. They are the very condition of their presence.
Chosen by Oli&Mu
Every Courtised one is met and assessed personally. No spontaneous sign-up is examined: this place is not applied for.
AN ESSENTIAL RULE
The relationship is created in one direction only.
Courtised ones cannot contact our member couples. It is the couples who, if they wish, take the initiative to approach them. This rule protects our priority members from any solicitation and preserves the serenity of their exchanges.
Member couplesCourtised ones
Never the reverse. No exception.
THEIR ROLE IN THE CIRCLE
What they bring.
Beyond their presence, Courtised ones contribute to the life of the Circle and to the evolution of the Journal.
Writing in the Journal
They may sign articles, share a perspective, an address, an experience - always read by Oli&Mu before publication.
Suggesting fine addresses
Clubs, restaurants, hotels, getaways: their suggestions feed the living map of the Circle.
Shaping the Circle
They take part in the evolution of the site, its content and its operation, through their exchanges with the founders.
ACCESS TO PROFILES
Behind the door, as everywhere else.
The full profiles, portraits and conversations of Courtised ones are accessible only to members of the Boudoir. This public page shows only their spirit and a few silhouettes.
Join the CircleAN EVEN MORE CLOSED CIRCLE
Eyes Wide Shut.
For those to whom discretion is an absolute condition: a separate circle, where one sees without being seen, and where one opens one's door only at one's discretion.
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